My arms are like noodles

[smeddley]

I wonder if people who, while in a relationship, maintain MINE and YOURS of everything (as in separate bank accounts, only doing their own laundry...) only shovel THEIR half of the driveway? I can't get over the absurdity of committing yourself to a person, becoming one with them so to speak, but never actually sharing everything. It seems sad, and like a set-up for failure.

Granted, I've only shoveled half of the driveway - the top half - because that's as far as I got before I couldn't move anymore.